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Just broke up or just can't let go

Do you want to get the best revenge on Your Ex and Become the best version of yourself?

Are you ready to stop obsessively analyzing what went wrong and learn why getting your ex back is not the only way for you to feel better?

Dear Friend,

Let's skip the long intro and cut straight to the chase.

I call my coaching method The Painful Truth, because there is no quick fix to stop hurting from your breakup.

No gimmick or false guarantee will bring your ex back, because people have free will. And if you continue to obsessively talk about your breakup and try to control what your ex does, you will continue to feel hopeless and be in pain, but you can get the most excellent revenge on your ex by using all your frustrated energy to feel empowered, by becoming the best version of yourself.

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The Painful Truth is this breakup is the best thing to happen to you. Because your pain can help you grow. Now is your chance to look at your own issues and raise your self-esteem, so you can become the best version of yourself. If you do get a second chance with your ex things need to change, so you can make it last this time. But first this action plan will help you recognize if your ex is even right for you, and if not, how you can find someone better.

"I found Donna's insight, feedback, and advice to be spot-on. I have since healed and I am now ready to date again, something I never thought possible several months earlier."
— Chicago, (coaching client)

Most of my clients tell me, “I only feel better when I’m talking to you.” So I have always offered coaching packages because I know people who are struggling to understand their breakup and missing their ex, need a lot of support. A great deal of people have been asking me for an online course, but I devote a lot of time to my clients, so I never really had the time and I also wasn’t sure an online course could be as effective as I am in person. However, I can only truly help one or two people at a time, and in the middle of the night is frequently when people need the most support. I started to recognize that I do have basically the same conversation with all my clients, and I frequently share stories my other clients have been going through. So I finally decided an online course could actually make more sense. I mean I always give my clients actions to take between sessions anyway, and unfortunately I’m not always available, but an online course is. I have now spent at least 200 hours, putting together 3 decades of knowledge into this action plan for you, and it offers so much more than I could possibly fit into a few coaching sessions, plus it will allow me to truly be there for you 24/7.  

"I realize I was able to achieve more with you in only 13 hours than I was able to achieve with all the other coaches I had worked with in 40+ combined hours of coaching."
— Braedan, (coaching client)

unlike any other breakup coach

This Action Plan is unlike anything else you’ve seen before because I’m uniquely different. I’ve lived several different lives, and I promise you there is NO better teacher than experience. After a complicated childhood, I lost my Mom as a teenager and moved to New York City with a modeling agency, in the 80's when Manhattan was a pretty wild place. I studied acting, which is human behavior, and moved to Los Angeles for 6 years in the 90's. Hollywood was certainly eye-opening. They used to call it the casting couch. I fully understand why it’s now called the "Me Too" movement, because just about every starlet has their own horror story. I certainly have more than a few of my own. Yet while I’ve never been one to name-drop, I did also get to spend time with some big celebrities who were truly wonderful and very intriguing.

" Although my experience with a psychiatrist and other counselor were helpful, neither of them were able to show me which options truly existed, and how to make the right decisions.  Donna always had the right advice, and as we all know, during a breakup we sometimes can't seem to keep it together."
— Lisa, (coaching client)

I returned to New York, and got so good at being single that I was asked to be in one of the very first reality shows, "The Real Sex & The City", that lead to my first magazine advice column and I co-hosted 205 episodes of "Naked New York", a talk show about sex & relationships. I went to NYU, starting coaching others, wrote my book, and became the relationship expert for Good Morning America.

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What makes me better suited to help you through this breakup is the multiple devastating breakups I suffered through first-hand over those three decades — knowledge was the only thing that made me feel better so each and every painful experience further enriched my ability to help you.

As my long-term clients can tell you, I’ve even learned from the 100’s of people I have now coached, which has made me even better. My brain has always grabbed onto tidbits of facts and knowledge, and I’m so proud of how I’ve now compiled it all into a proven Action Plan to help you recover from Your Breakup.  

" Donna clearly posseses both experience, and the gift of  insight, which enables her to support her clients through painful breakups and help shift their trajectory towards a clearer and more fulfilling path."
— Laura, (coaching client)

The straight forward truth

I'm not saying you will get over your breakup overnight. It is entirely up to you when you'll heal. There is no magic formula to make you immediately forget your pain, as much as we all wish there was. It’s only your willingness to explore The Painful Truth about how your ex isn't good for you that will ultimately make you feel better.

I truly believe if you fully commit to all my action steps, and do the necessary work to grow, you will become a better version of yourself and create the happy life you desire.

"I'm such a better person because of you Donna Barnes."
— Kevin, (coaching client)

here’s what I can guarantee

This is absolutely the best Action Plan when you are in Breakup Recovery. I’m sharing with you every single secret I’ve acquired in my 50+ years. And giving you step-by-step encouragement to feel better about your breakup without holding anything back. I honestly believe this is the best information you’ll find anywhere about healing from a breakup. It’s 100% up to date, fresh, and in-depth. It’s not a bunch of abstract theory but rather a lifetime of knowledge that shows you step-by-step how to move forward and be happy either with or without your ex. But I believe if any program is going to help you get your ex back then it’s this one.

No matter how young or old you are, gay or straight, anywhere in the world, if you just broke up, or you’re just stuck and can’t move forward, my Action Plan is built to help you.

"No one should feel alone or lost as I initially did during my breakup, Donna was the one who enabled me to feel that I could make it through, and I did. Going through a breakup is not just about getting past losing someone, it's about finding yourself again, and Donna seamlessly glided me through this."
— Karen, (coaching client)

Exactly what you're getting

Right away in my welcome video I offer you tools to calm your anxiety, and to help you start feeling better. I fully recognize that you need to break the habit of interacting with your ex, so one of your first action steps is to change that habit to interacting with me.

There are more than 10 hours of coaching videos spread out thoughtfully in step-by-step, easy to follow actions, to keep you moving forward without getting overwhelmed throughout my 90-day Action Plan.  And, there is no pressure to finish within 90-days. You will have lifetime access to this Action Plan, so you can move forward at the pace that feels right for you.

Most importantly, I’m going to help you improve your primary relationship, the one with yourself. Just about every client I have coached has needed help raising their self-esteem. So as you work your way through the 5 complete steps of my Breakup Recovery Action Plan, I will continually talk about boosting your self-esteem, and things you need to stop doing that are diminishing your self-esteem.  I’ll also freely share personal stories that I never share publicly in an effort to help you benefit from all my experiences, and try to prevent you from repeating any of my mistakes.

Action Step #1

No Contact With Your Ex

I will help you cut all contact with your ex because that is the best approach if you’re hoping to get your ex back, however I will not allow you to just hopelessly wait for that.

Part one:  Why can't we be friends?

Why no contact is best for you
Logistics of social media
All about cyberstalking
My ex has my stuff
Actions for no contact

Part TWO: My ex contacted me!

How should I respond?
Are we getting back together?
Should we have sex?
My ex blocked me!
My Ex Moved on already!
Emotional blackmail

...Of course, I know you need emotional support too. Your relationship has died, at least for now, and grieving is a process, so I’ll be virtually holding your hand to help you cope with life without your ex...

Action Step #2

Help to feel better

Once you have moved past hoping to hear from your ex you can start processing your emotions.

Thoughts are powerful
Getting through the weekends
Finding your ex's cons
The Breaking point
tools to feel better

Part one:  the 5 steps of grief

Handling the 5 steps
I'm angry at my ex
Broken Promises
Hope, psychics, & Goals
More than one soul mate
Redefine your identity

Part TWO: My choices about sex

Sex too soon?
Obsession or true love
Rebounds & Hook-Ups
Sexually Abused?

...Fear is usually the base cause of breakups. Fear of commitment, fear of abandonment, fear of intimacy, there is a long list. I’m going to help you pin-point the root cause of why your ex left;
whether it was your ex’s fear, your fear,
or a combination of both,
it will help you feel better to learn the truth...

Action Step #3


Whether or not you get another chance with your ex, you need to become whole. Change is a process.

Part one:  Scrutinize your ex

Who your ex TRULY is
Is my ex Broken?
it's complicated
The moment things changed
identify Toxic Behavior
Is Your ex a Narcissist, Sociopath, BPD, or addict?

Part TWO: Best version of myself

Feeling abandoned and looking at your issues
using Boundaries appropriately to teach people how to treat you
Raise your self-Esteem and feel empowered
Stop Feeling Insecure
Identify your patterns to learn from your mistakes
Communicate better to achieve emotional intimacy
set SMART goals and get rid of any obstacles that have been holding you back from living the life you truly desire.
Recommended reading list to advance your growth even further

...By the time you get to Step Four Closure you should be feeling much better about yourself and have a clear decision about what you need to do — either let go of your ex so you can find someone better, or prepare to possibly start over with your ex...

Action Step #4


After the 90 days have passed you can reach out to your ex and I’ll guide you through possibly reuniting, or fully letting go. Either way, you need to create a new beginning so this step will help you truly let go of the past.

How to reach out to your ex
Reunite right to make it last this time
Letting go of lingering guilt
Making Amends
Same goals but different paths

...And finally, I’ll help you figure out if you’re ready to start seriously dating again, or maybe just need to have some casual fun with a rebound...

Action Step #5

Dating Again

I’ll show you how to effectively use your new communication skills so your next relationship can last forever, whether that is a second chance with your ex, or completely starting over with someone better. Because like attracts like. Once you’re healthier, you’ll be attracted to a healthier partner, and they’ll be attracted to you. So I will warn you, you may not be attracted to your ex anymore, because you’ll clearly see your ex’s unresolved issues. 

How to know who is right for you
Dating tips to avoid another breakup
Getting comfortable with the new you
protecting your heart and Setting a good pace
How to recognize a commitmentphobe
How to recognize a player

...And it gets even better...

I’m also giving you
2 free bonuses worth $4000
as my welcome gift when you register
for my breakup recovery action plan!

If you’re familiar with my personal coaching then you know I always want my clients to get their needs met and feel cared about. So that’s why when you join my Breakup Recovery Action Plan today I’m giving you these 2 free bonuses worth $4000 to make sure you get the results you want just like any of my personal coaching clients.

Here's what I'm giving you:

Free bonus #1

Private Telegram chat group

(Value: $3500)

24/7 you can communicate with me, and/or other members who are also struggling with the pain of their breakup and missing their ex.
someone helpful to reach out to in a weak moment, to never feel alone, and to get help to feel better.
Priceless if you're having a panic attack, or need a pick-me-up, or intervention to not contact your ex!
I'm not promising that I will always be available but i can promise i will always respond as quickly as i can

Free bonus #2

Interactive quizzes, checklists,
& growth worksheets

(Value: $500)


Is My Ex Worth Getting Back?
How Well Did my Ex Communicate?
How Well Do I Communicate? 
Am I Giving Away My Power?
Are My Choices About Sex Hurting Me?
Am I ready for another relationship, or just a rebound?
Who is right for me?


Is My Ex Toxic?
Is my ex a narcissist?
Is my ex an addict? 
Was my ex cheating?
Am I missing boundaries?
Do I have abandonment issues?
Is this a rebound?


(The same ones I give my personal coaching clients!)

Raise my self-Esteem
Finding My True & Authentic Self
Writing My cons list
What are my patterns?
Evaluate my relationship Behavior
What are my deal-Breakers
balancing my life
Setting Action Goals
What I'm putting off & putting up with
How to Actively Listen

I’m so excited about this online Action Plan!!

It contains so much more specialized attention than I can possibly offer in just one private coaching package. I really want you to get the best of my coaching, so I’m giving you these 2 bonuses, a $4000 value as a welcome to my Breakup Recovery Action Plan.

Here's what to do next

If you're ready to get answers about what happened in your breakup, and who your ex truly is; and start feeling empowered, and create the life you want, as the best version of yourself, then you have to register for my Breakup Recovery Action Plan.

You can register today for a one-time payment of $497 or 6 monthly payments of $97.

If you feel like this is right for you, click here, and sign up for my Breakup Recovery Action Plan and get $4,000 worth of FREE bonuses.

Here’s what happens after that

As soon as you’ve registered for my Breakup Recovery Action Plan you’ll get instant access to the member area where you can set up your own username and password, and of course you’ll get access to the $4,000 worth of free bonuses. I’ll send you an onboarding email with all the access details and links. 

As soon as that’s done, you can send me a direct message from the Action Plan Homepage, and I’ll add you to my private Telegram group. You’ll also be able to communicate with me from the app on your phone... and commiserate and interact with the others as they join.

That’s where the fun part really starts

 You’ll be plugged into a community of like-minded people who are all struggling over their breakup and sharing the same goal as you: to feel better without your ex and have some fun along the way.

In total, you get access to more than 10 hours of coaching videos that you can access 24/7 from your member area.

But please don’t worry, everything is broken down into simple, actionable steps, so you will never feel overwhelmed. You'll have instant access to my Welcome videos and bonuses, plus the first two steps — No Contact and Help to Feel Better. 

Step Three: Mindfulness is the most important step, broken down into two parts, each with a lot of tools and information, so to keep you feeling empowered Step Three will open on the fifth day.

Step 4: Closure will open one week later. And the final, Step Five: Dating Again will open three days after Step 4.

Remember there is no deadline - you have lifetime access to this Action Plan!

If you feel like this is right for you, click on the button under this video, sign up for my Breakup Recovery Action Plan and get $4,000 worth of free bonuses.

Warning! Extremely Limited!

Now, you and I both know how hard it is to cope with a breakup and that I’ll get a lot of interest from this letter, so that’s why you need to pay attention to this next part carefully.

Time is a factor now. As much as I’d love to help everyone stop hurting over their breakup, I simply can’t accept more than 50 clients and still provide the help and support that you need in order to get the results that you want, to get to the painful truth about your specific breakup.

I like to keep my client groups small and intimate, so I can make sure everyone gets results. Because of that I’m only accepting 50 clients.

I simply don’t have capacity for more.

So if you’re truly interested in feeling better about your breakup, you have to act as soon as possible... before someone else gets your spot and transforms their life as the best version of themselves.

Oh, and in case you’re wondering, spots are granted on a first-come, first served basis.

So if you are feeling like — YES, I NEED TO STOP HURTING!! Click the button below and register now.

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